May 25, 2017 41 Comments


Great things come to you, when you have the believes for it! Feeling extremely honored to be selected to join the brand army of Missguided ( #babesofmissguided ) during the month of May! How does the two things relate to each other? Let me tell you a little more…


A lot of the time, people sit around and ask God why do great things never happen to them? Instead of waiting for great things falling down from the sky, I think the right question here is – are you ready to receive all those great and fabulous gifts from life yet? Below is a sample list of ‘readiness’ which you may refer to…


Resonate your frequency at a higher level

You probably ask me what the heck are you talking about by resonate your frequency at a higher level? We are no electrons orbiting around a nucleus, why do we need to resonate to a higher frequency orbit for certain ‘chemical reactions’ to happen? Believe or not, our mood is like a giant energy field: it resonate at a low frequency when we are feeling down and at a high frequency when we are feeling happy and enlightened. So how do we jump between the orbits and resonate at higher frequencies when we are feeling low? Here’s a few things you could do.


Surround yourself by positive energies

I’m sure there are times you feel bothered or resentment when someone next to just kept complaining about life and the people around them. You get dragged down by their negative energies towards life. There might also be times you feel very motivated or ambitious when talking to someone who are confident and made great ambitious plans in life that they want to achieve. Your spirit get uplifted by their ideas and talks, and you feel like to achieve something great in life too. Therefore, why not surrounded yourself with all the positive vibes, so you can be inspired and achieve something greater in life!


Make changes in life

If you don’t like your current situation, then do something about it. Nothing will ever change, if you don’t do something about it. If you don’t like about your job. Instead of waiting around for the table to turn around, maybe it’s time to come to realization of that and start looking for a new one. If you are not happy with your fitness level, maybe it’s time to plan some good exercise routine in your weekly schedule. Once you start to make changes in life, you will notice better things start to come into your life!


Show your dedications

Making change is the first step. You need really stick to your plan and show some dedications to achieve your goals if you really want to get them! It is always easy to chicken out go back to your old situation and pray for good things to happen. However, it is the ones who stand till last are the successful ones in life.


…and always be GRATEFUL!

Sometimes we don’t always get what we have asked for. However, showing appreciation and gratefulness is always the key to happiness in life. It is important to be thankful to the people and things around us be ready to acknowledge that. When are feeling grateful, we are actually giving back some of the high frequency positive energy back to other, by doing so, we will be able to resonate at an even higher frequency. Don’t you ever feel great by telling someone who thankful you are to have them in your life? or feeling great when writing someone a thank you note? It’s a great feeling to pass the positive energy around to the ones around you.


What are some of the things you do to regain positive energy?


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      September 2, 2017

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  4. Lily Rose

    June 2, 2017

    Woah girl. You look stunning in both of these looks. I love the cutout details of the bodysuit and how the pants make your legs look so good in the first look. Those boots and that bag too, gorgeous! And the floral pants in the second outfit are fab.
    About the things you recommended for a happy and grateful life, I agree with all of them. I didn’t know people could resonate at different frequency levels depending on their mood, ha. But it makes so much sense that happier people resonate at higher frequency. I agree with the dedication advice too, cuz no change is going to happen if you don’t actually stick to the plans and goals you set out.
    Thanks for an inspiring post dear.
    -Lily from With Love Lily Rose

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  6. Warren Pasi

    June 1, 2017

    Oh my god you look awesome! I love the styling of the shoot perfection location and those printed pants look amaze on you! Also great advice in this post one pf my new years resolutions was to only surround myself with people who produce positive energy life’s too short to be around negativity. XOWP

  7. Vanessa Berlin

    June 1, 2017

    First, let’s talk about your look and images. Simply amazing, you look totally chic and sophisticated! I absolutely love your words about how to resonate at higher frequencies when we are feeling low. It happens to me all the time, sometimes because of the hectic pace of life I feel overwhelmed. And, I never take the time to think about all the positive points you’re talking here to simply back in track to your life and feel better. I really enjoy reading your post, it was a wonderful source of inspiration.
    Have a nice day!


  8. Sheree

    June 1, 2017

    Congrats on being part of Babes of Missguided squad!! They are such a great trendy brand and these shots looked so editorial, and I can see it being in the Nylon magazine. The all black jumpsuit is so chic and those boots totally captured my attention with those metallic heel details. The second look with floral pants is TDF and I would wear it in a heart beat.

    ~ xo Sheree
    Posh Classy Mom

  9. Ana

    June 1, 2017

    You are such a babe rocking their clothes!!! You look soo good in them! My favourite ones are flower pants!! You are so lucky!! Congrats on such a great opportunity, they have chosen the right girl for sure! Keep slaying girl!

  10. Maryam

    June 1, 2017

    Thank you for this beautiful post babe. I think sometimes just making small changes can make a huge impact, such as smiling at a stranger and saying thank you and show gratitude. The little things are what matters the most. BTW, you are skating in these outfits. You look absolutely stunning!

    xx, Maryam

  11. Andreea Birsan

    June 1, 2017

    Oh babe, you totally nailed this Missguided attire! Adore how you styled the outfit with the yellow bag! It makes everything look a lot more fun and that cap adds such a badass vibe to the entire look. Also, did I mention how cool are the photos? They look exactly as the ones from the fashion magazines. Wishing you a lovely day! xx


  12. Aimara

    May 31, 2017

    Congrats on that gig babe! You are def a babe!!
    And thanks for writing this thoughtful post, I really needed to read this,
    I’m going through a rough patch and I’m already doing some of the things you mentioned here, like being grateful and surrounding myself with positive people. That makes a whole difference.
    I’m also doing meditation because I’ve heard it’s great and I think it’s helping too 🙂

  13. Eliza

    May 31, 2017

    That sounds fantastic! Congrats, babe! You deserve it! This photoshoot is a great proof. Like your style and the location, you’ve picked up.
    As for the positive thinking, I absolutely agree with you. We can get whatever we want and whenever we want it, we just have to believe in it and be sure. You have to surround yourself with all things beautiful and think/stay positive, that is how it works.
    Being grateful for everything that you have is a big thing for sure. Every day when I wake up and when I go to sleep I thank myself and the universe for every single tiny thing that happened to me and that I have. That really helps me to stay positive and grateful.

    Cheers, Eliza | http://www.fashion-confession.com

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  15. Aurela

    May 31, 2017

    Congratulations on your collaboration with MissGuided! They have beautiful pieces for everyone. I love to read your posts, they are very motivating. So true on the point you made, being around people that are ambitious and inspiring can lift you up. The older I get the less I associate myself with people who are negative or complain about their lives specially in NA. I believe hard work pays off and you get what you go after. My mantra in life! Thanks for sharing!
    You look beautiful!

    Aurela xoxox

  16. Wanderlustts

    May 31, 2017

    First off, let me just say you SLAYED that photoshoot. You look amazing in every set. I especially love the first outfit. An all black combo with a slight open back and flared bottoms – absolutely in LOVE.
    These are great tips Jessie! I’m actually at a point in my life where I needed to hear this . I’ve been making some changes to try to maximize my happiness and time and I’ve gotten rid of the bad and negative energy around me. I think it’s important to dedicate time to yourself too. Alone time can harvest positive energy as well. I think my favourite advice was to stay grateful. I think often people forget where they come from or what it took to get there and they don’t stay humble and grateful – it’s a real shame.


  17. Sharon Wu

    May 30, 2017

    you look amazing as always jessie! congrats on working with Missguided! It’s definitely a huge accomplishment. I regain/sustain positive energy by cutting out the negatives (making the best of a situation, cutting contact with toxic people, etc), and working out! 🙂 xo, sharon


  18. Open Kly

    May 30, 2017

    Hey Darling,
    Hows you?
    First Congrats that you are now a MissGuided Babe:)
    Totally agree with you, I am a very positive Girl and Believe that Everything is Possible and we Need to expect Good Things, and To Be Positive:)
    Loved your Tips as well:)
    Miracles Happens Every Day:)
    Ps: You Look Amazing in the Photos:)
    Love Kisses
    Open Kloset By Karina
    Happy Tuesday

  19. Amanda

    May 30, 2017

    Congratulations on your collaboration with MissGuided! They have so many amazing pieces! This is such a lovely post! I think something that’s key for me is really being intentional by focusing my thoughts on my goals. I feel like when I do this, things develop very naturally! Someone once said to me, “Every day work toward doing what you love because time will pass regardless.” That’s always stuck with me when my goals seem overwhelming! It’s a one day, one step, one thought at a time sort of process! Your images and outfits are phenomenal! You have legs for YEARS girl! You literally kill it! I’m not the least bit surprised you are a part of this amazing campaign!

    Manda | http://EvocativelyChosen.com

  20. Helen Chik

    May 29, 2017

    Loving the positive message you’re giving here babe and agree that if you give positivity to the universe then you’ll receive it back threefold! Looking amazing as always honey xx

    Helen xx

  21. Jordan Chapman

    May 29, 2017

    Congrats on being one of the babes this month! I love Missguided and their style is amazing, just as yours is! I definitely am doing my best to bring more positives into my life and I agree with a lot of this post! Everything we do has a reaction, so let’s make it a positive one!
    Jordan xx

  22. Thomas Falkenstedt

    May 29, 2017

    I’m all about higher frequencies and I think the key words here are dedication and gratefulness. Without dedication you won’t get anywhere no matter if it’s in your personal or professional life and without gratefulness you’ll just end up being one bitter mofo (excuse my language) to be honest. I surround myself with people with a positive mindset with great ambitions in life and that’s where I get my strength from. Exercising and enough sleep is crucial as well to maintain a good balance in life. And oh, just have to say you look amazing in that Missguided outfit!


  23. Samantha Mariko

    May 28, 2017

    The points you made are all so true- it really is about being positive no matter what happens and being grateful for what you have. And when I saw these photos on Instagram I was like, wow!! These are amazing and you did such a great job <3

  24. Natalia k

    May 28, 2017

    I can totally see why misguided chose you as a babes of misguided you’re a total babe!
    Positive energy resonates from you and your kicking arse in this shoot my favorite one from you yet!
    I saw this on your Instagram feed and I was like babe slay !!
    Natalia k

  25. Candace

    May 28, 2017

    I know all too well about surrounding myself with positivity. It has made such a difference in my professional and personal life! I am so happy for you and your opportunity with Missguided. You fit right in and this look is fab!


  26. KATE TIK

    May 28, 2017

    Wow! Starting from your outfit to your pics to the inspirational writing, I am loving this all. Makes me feel so much aware that I can change whatever situations I don’t like in my life. Thank you so much for sharing.


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  28. Jennifer Quattrucci

    May 27, 2017

    You are completely amazing! Love all of this positivity and extraordinarily amazing vibes ! Not to mention both of these looks are total perfection! Thanks, amazing friend,for the inspiration!!! Definitely need that bodysuit!!

  29. Jessi Malay

    May 27, 2017

    Yesss Jessie girll! You look absolutely gorgeous in this all black look… so chic! <3

    XO Jessi,

  30. Gail

    May 27, 2017

    Congrats girl! You deserve to be one of the babes! This look is very sassy!


  31. Jenn Hanft

    May 26, 2017

    Yess!! I’m feeling all the positive energy coming through your post! I think a huge thing is to always be kind. This always has a chain reaction like giving back because you might never know how far kindness can spread. Plus making others feel good will help make you feel good!

    PS love both these fits! Killing it.

    With love, Jenn

  32. Jo

    May 26, 2017

    This just might be my favorite photo shoot of yours! You are totally rocking your looks from Missguided! I’m loving the edgy cool vibes and what an awesome location. Is that an old vintage train? Fab post, babe!

    xo, Jo

  33. Christine Kong

    May 26, 2017

    Dang girl these looks and photo shoot backdrop is so fierce. Your legs go on for miles and I love how you styled these looks! So hot!! I totally believe in surrounding yourself with positive people and really trying to better yourself and seeing the silver lining in things. There’s always a yin and a yang so look for the good in every situation! Xoxo, Christine

  34. Kara Aragon

    May 26, 2017

    I absolutely love those shades & what a great photo location. Beautiful!



    May 25, 2017

    damn girl! looking so good

  36. Déborah

    May 25, 2017

    You look so stunning in those looks, wow ! x


  37. marcy

    May 25, 2017

    Such a beautiful post babe!! I like to always be grateful, smile often, said thank you for simple things!!! About the looks absolutely love both looks and you look amazing in both.


  38. Bernice

    May 25, 2017

    Congratulations on joining the babes of Missguided for May! You are absolutely slaaaaaying in this outfit. I love these tips on helping you become a better person. All great advice xx


  39. Mariann Yip

    May 25, 2017

    These photos are so amazing and you look fi fierce in that jumpsuit! I love missguided because they have amazing items 🙂

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